At some point in our lives, we are expected to have released enough of the trauma that raised us and met us along the way because years later, the same type of betrayal or reflex from an unfavourable experience should NOT still bring tears to our eyes. At one point, you are now to blame… Continue reading Excuses Excused.
Tag: accept defeat
Bits and Peace(s)
Not everything goes our way. I understand that now. Something that can be planned to the TEE can fall apart as if you never paid any attention to even the most simplest of details. The hardest thing to do when stuck in between a rock and a hard place is acceptance. Ahh, acceptance. That is… Continue reading Bits and Peace(s)
00:01
I watched my bedroom door at 23:59 on the 17th of May 2021. The seconds felt like hours, and what would normally be a quiet night was a night crowded by hushed whispers from familiar and unfamiliar voices. 00:00. The phone screen read '18 May' against my black wallpaper. I looked at the door one… Continue reading 00:01
Delete for Me
On WhatsApp, there is a feature called "Delete for me". This deletes messages on your end of the conversation but maintains it in the inbox of the other person you were having the conversation with.All this feature does is get rid of the proof of what happened on your side. The other person may still… Continue reading Delete for Me
The In-betweeners
Success stories are good.Nothing more, nothing less. We all love a good Success story, especially if it begins with the inspiration of the story going through trials to get to where they currently are. These stories will give you steps on how to get where they are. Their mantras, the habits they picked up... how… Continue reading The In-betweeners
Sucker Punch
Sucker Punch: Noun/Verb. An unexpected punch or blow. When something throws me off guard... oh, hello!!! How have you been?As I was saying, when something throws me off guard, the first thought I go through is "I can't wait for another day, when all this will be over. If it cannot be over, I can't… Continue reading Sucker Punch
1 to Phoenix
How many times can a phoenix "rise" from the ashes again? I have started and stopped entries more than 15 times THIS MONTH. Barely visited my briefly abandoned business social media page, hidden proof of missed deadlines under the seat of my car…. I have done it all! I have done everything that would need… Continue reading 1 to Phoenix
“We Messed Up huh?”
Ever have that feeling where you examine the happenings in your life and the only person to blame is you?I am not even being hard on myself, but there are times when I just KNEW it was me with the problem.And all I could do was look at myself in the mirror and confess that… Continue reading “We Messed Up huh?”